Men do not look, nor think the same way as women
Understanding men is not an easy task for any women who desires to find the right man in her life. This blog will assist you in thinking a bit deeper before taking every word as face value. We will discuss a few things to consider. Men do not look, nor think the same way as women.
A matter of fact, they are the opposite of women and in most cases think differently. Yet, men can be compatible. What a man tell you many times is not what they mean. And men, this is for you. Women say and do things the opposite of what men may understand.
That is why relationships can be complicated. Let’s focus in this Blog on one area and probably the most important communication factor between the opposite sex. There are a few things ladies we must learn about men, and the earlier we realize this, the better.
As Women, we like to build lasting relationships. We also desire intimacy and companionship in that relationship. Finding a true mate in today’s society is not easy to do. So many times we find ourselves settling for less.
In most cases, men are looking for women who they can just have fun with for the night. Men call this “Playing the Field”. Men sees it as, if nothing is broken, why fix it. These men ladies are not looking, nor are they ready for a lasting relationship or commitment.
When it comes to falling in love, men love deeply. When they fall for you, it is hard for them if they ever have to break away. They don’t handle broken relationships well, and when they get hurt by a woman, it is hard for them to trust or love again.
Men are much more cautious when beginning new relationship than women. Women will find a few qualities in a man they admire, and they will quickly tell their family and friends about him, and move forward towards a committed relationship. She wants it to be permanent.
When a woman cannot get a commitment for marriage, she is much more quickly to suggest moving in together than the man. This sometimes is an open door ticket for the man to take advantage of the opportunity with the understanding that he can still have his freedom to roam with other women on the side.
It is important that women take a step back, slow down and evaluate the full picture of that relationship. If he is willing to move in with you, it does not mean he is ready for a committed relationship. In most cases, it mean the he is willing to take a chance for a “free ride”. Men are not stupid ladies. If he can get a free ride, why would he go out and buy a car?
You see ladies, we often tell ourselves that he just need time, and you can change his mind and drive him to marriage, and living with him will prove to him that you both make great companions, but most of all it allows you to prove to him that you can be a good wife and will make a good mother to his offspring. Well, nothing could be further from the truth. Marriage is not based on none of those things.
Marriage is based on completion. You see ladies, Men are incomplete without a women. When we try to complete him in a sexual way before the commitment of matrimony happens, his desire to keep searching for that completion will continues. God made man to desire a woman (He called her his wife) to complete him physically, mentally and sexually.
He made her beautiful, gentle, and desirable physically, mentally and sexually for that reason. But it must be done in the way God intended it to be. In our society today, Sex is a dirty word. But it is not dirty when done in the right way, and it is up to us (women) to bring that beautiful intimacy back into our relationships with men (our husbands) by acknowledging that Marriage was never man’s idea, but Gods.
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