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A Powerful 90 Day Journey
Having the man you want in 90 Days may not be as hard as you think. But ladies, you must “Think”! It is keeping him for more than 90 Days that you need to be concerned about. Have you heard that things that start quickly, may end quickly? You may be going about this the wrong way.
First, you need to focus on what you are looking for in a man, and why. Then, you should be able to defined those characteristics one-by-one as you seek to have a closer relationship with him?
For example, if you said, “I want him to have a job”. Then know the reason for that. You should be able to define why it is important that this man have a job in-order for you to date him. You may say you want him to have a job because you want a man that is self sufficient, and not relying on you to provide for him. Right?
If you can’t define your reasoning for your “why”. You may find yourself saying, “just forget it” and overlooking those negative characteristics that he might have. If you overlook those negative reasoning now, they will surely surface later.
Finding the right man in your life can be a good thing. But equally so, finding the wrong man can be the opposite. Matter of fact, it can be a “Nightmare”. And Third, Begin seeing yourself as deserving to find a man that is good and right for you. Don’t rush! You deserve it. Now, instead of seeing him as a “Good Catch”. See yourself as the gift in the relationship.
Now, before you go out and start picking and choosing all these different men in your life, and throwing many of them to the curve. Create a clear vision of what you are looking for, and why. Pray that God will grant you wisdom in finding the right man for you. Ask yourself….will this man enhance who I am? or will I need to make him into what I want him to be?
As you approach your reasoning for each question, be honest with yourself. Building a relationship with a man is suppose to complete you. So, ask yourself”? Does this man make me feel complete?
If you are still struggling with your feelings and your reasoning why, you may want to consider entering into my 90 day Journey to finding the true you. So, what is this 90 day Journey? People go on my 90 Day Journey for many different reasons.
You may take this Journey to find the Home of your Dreams! You may take this Journey to see if you would like to have a child. Or more Children! You may even plan your 90 Day Journey to run a marathon.
Life is a Journey, and we will focus on you finding the right man that will compliment you in this Journey. There are a few things you must do to prepare yourself for the 90 Day Journey. Let’s get started. Comment me in the box below.
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